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How to Work With a Narcissist - Without Losing Yourself- Part 2 | Epi 101
10. sep. 2025 29m

In Part 2 of this conversation, we move from identifying narcissistic traits in a boss to navigating the complex relationship without losing yourself....

Sneak Peak into Office Hours- Is My Partner a Narcissist? | Epi 100!
6. sep. 2025 25m

Is My Partner a Narcissist? When You’re Blamed, Erased, or Treated Like the Enemy  In this special 100th episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on  ...

Narcissism at Work: Denial, Deflection and the Narcissistic Boss – Part 1
3. sep. 2025 25m

In this episode, we crack open a subtle but deeply toxic dynamic many professionals encounter: the narcissistic boss or coworker who deflects blame, r...

Healing Narcissism Revisited: The Most Downloaded Episode
27. aug. 2025 32m

We’re about to hit two huge milestones — Season 3 is just weeks away, and our 100th episode celebration is right around the corner! But before we laun...

From ‘I’m a Piece of Sh..!’ to ‘I Hurt You and I Care’: Shame To Guilt
20. aug. 2025 27m

In this episode, Renee and I peel back the curtain on the intense emotional battle between shame and guilt. You’ll hear about how to feel guilt withou...

Is That Really an Apology—Or Just a Way to Feel Better?
13. aug. 2025 25m

Is your apology really an apology—or just a way to ease your own shame? In this episode, Renee Swanson and I dive into the hidden emotions behind guil...

Are You Too Hard on Yourself? Some Preliminary Thoughts on Guilt
6. aug. 2025 17m

Guilt is supposed to help us repair—but what happens when it turns into self-punishment? In this clip, Renee and I explore how guilt gets distorted, h...

Let’s Talk—Office Hours Starts this Tuesday!
2. aug. 2025 1m

Sign up here to join the conversation:  Reserve your spot and be part of the first session: https://www.drmazzella.com/officehours If you are intere...

When Connection Feels Dangerous: How Shame Makes You Disappear
30. jul. 2025 25m

What if the reason you shut down, disappear, or attack yourself… isn’t weakness, but shame? In this clip with Renee Swanson, we uncover how shame hide...

I Know Why I Get Angry and Defensive—So Why Can’t I Stop?
23. jul. 2025 27m

In this episode, we look at the painful moment so many of us know too well: when you understand why you get angry, defensive, or shut down—and yet, yo...

I Know It’s Small… So Why Does It Hurt So Much?
16. jul. 2025 28m

Why do small letdowns—like a late reply or a minor change of plans—sometimes feel like a gut punch? This episode unpacks how everyday disappointments ...

Entangled! Pathological Lovers and Malignant Narcissism
12. jul. 2025 42m

Why do toxic relationships feel impossible to leave? In this episode, Dr. Nae and I explore trauma bonds—how narcissistic abuse uses love bombing, con...

How Mindfulness and Psychodynamic Therapy Can Change Your Life
9. jul. 2025 22m

What if the real challenge in healing from narcissism isn’t just the big moments, but the subtle, often invisible patterns shaping your relationships ...

Why Mindfulness and Containment Are Game-Changers in Narcissism Recovery
2. jul. 2025 22m

What keeps us trapped in toxic narcissistic relationships—and how can we finally break free? In this clip from my interview with Lindsey Miller, we un...

Toxic Relationships: How I Learned to Stay Grounded
28. jun. 2025 35m

What if healing from narcissistic relationships isn’t about fixing or avoiding pain—but learning to truly sit with it? In this episode with Lindsay, s...

Healing the Wounds Narcissism Left Behind
25. jun. 2025 24m

In this episode clip from Lindsey Miller’s The Stress Nanny podcast, we unpack the hidden dynamics of narcissistic relationships. Discover why emotion...

Why Can’t I Let Go of My Ex? I feel guilty for moving on!
21. jun. 2025 26m

In this episode, we dive into the quiet, tormenting force of unresolved guilt—and how it can entrap us in relationships long after they've ended. Thro...

Inside the Narcissist’s Mind: Why Grandiosity Is a Shield
18. jun. 2025 34m

What does it really take to help someone with narcissistic traits heal?  In this rich conversation with Lisa Taylor Austin, we explore how grandiosity...

Healing Narcissism: What Follows the Collapse of Narcissism? (4)
11. jun. 2025 30m

What happens when the grandiose self begins to fall apart? In part four of our Healing Narcissism series, we explore the emotional unraveling that mar...

Healing Narcissism: They Finally Open Up—Now What? (3)
7. jun. 2025 26m

In this episode, we explore the fragile emotional terrain that follows the softening of grandiose defenses. From emotional regulation to the risk of c...

Healing Narcissism: What to Do When You Can't Win (2)
4. jun. 2025 30m

This episode dives into the hidden dance between grandiosity and vulnerability in narcissistic individuals. You'll learn how to recognize the shift fr...

Healing Narcissism: If You Want to See Change -Start Here (1)
28. maj 2025 31m

In this episode, we look at the real work of healing narcissism—not by breaking the ego, but by understanding and slowly dismantling the defenses that...

Healing Narcissism: A Four-Part Series on Real Transformation
24. maj 2025 5m

Get ready! In this trailer, we introduce Healing Narcissism: A Four-Part Series — where we take you deep inside the real, raw, and often surprising pr...

How Hope Keeps You Trapped With a Malignant Narcissist
21. maj 2025 31m

In this episode, I join Dr. Nae and her support group to unpack the deep roots of narcissism and the challenges it brings to healing trauma bonds. We ...

Are You Fixing or Folding? Jim’s Story
17. maj 2025 33m

In this episode, we explore the fine line between genuine help and covert emotional demands. Jim shares his struggle with constantly trying to fix his...

When Love and Helplessness Collide
14. maj 2025 30m

In this episode, Jim shares the raw, emotional struggle of trying to connect with a daughter who feels unreachable. We unpack the complex family dynam...

How to Help Someone Break Free from Narcissistic Fantasy
7. maj 2025 19m

In this final clip from my interview on Soul Shaking Love, we dive into the tough questions about narcissistic change: How do you encourage someone to...

Can a narcissist actually change?
1. maj 2025 26m

In this episode, you’ll hear another powerful clip from my interview on Valerie Greene’s podcast, Soul Shaking Love. We explore two of the most freque...

From Codependency to a Genuine Connection
26. apr. 2025 31m

Valerie Greene dives into the roots of codependency, showing how childhood neglect can lead us to put others’ needs before our own. Through personal s...

How Can You Tell If You’re With a Narcissist?
23. apr. 2025 28m

Why is it so hard to leave someone who keeps hurting you? In this clip from Soul Shaking Love, we unpack the emotional confusion of narcissistic relat...